"Just as we should enjoy all things in moderation, any strength becomes a weakness if not balanced by complementary pursuits."
~ Barbara Fredrickson, in Darwin's regret.
"And so, what we suggest you (looking at client) do, between now and next time we meet, is to observe whatever you do and whatever happens that begins to move you up to 4, and gets you up to 4. Ok? But keep this a secret to yourself. Keep it a secret from the case manager. Let’s see if she can figure out when you have moved up that one step. As soon as you (looking at client) reach 4, you call and set up another appointment. And as soon as you (looking and case manager) think she has moved up one step in the scale, you call and set up the appointment. Whichever one’s first."
Then he writes: