Intrinsic motivation supporting communication

In response to this video I got a question from Jim: "So Coert, what is the solution? How should a parent encourage a child to exhibit certain behaviors in ways that support intrinsic motivations?" Thanks for that question. For those interested here are some suggestions for reading more about how you can communicate in ways that are likely to support intrinsic motivation:

1. On self-found internal solutions

2. On complimenting effectively

3. On providing direction

4. On Carol Dweck's work